If I'm a cougar then I'm the smartest animal out there

What do Demi Moore, Kelly Brook, Kim Kardashian and myself, have in common? Besides nice asses, it's our love for the younger man.

Just this past weekend, Kim K got married and is getting a lot of flack for it. Not so much for the extravagance of the wedding but people are putting bets on how long it will last.

From experience, my much younger boyfriend is more attentive, agreeable, caring, etc. I don't want him to sound like a muppet, but as a younger guy, any younger guy, he will be in awe of an older woman. He will feel that the world has given him something so great and he will try his hardest to keep her and keep her happy.

A younger guy knows that he is inexperienced and will never try control as a tactic, unlike an older/experienced man.

In the end, a happy relationship is not dependent on age but on how a couple respects and treats each other. Without trust and respect, it doesn't matter how much older the woman is - the relationship is doomed.

Life Partner... or Life Pleaser?!

The other day my Dadi (grandmother) asked me to get married soon so she can partake in my wedding (she feels that's she's getting too old). Being the annoyance that I am, I baited the old lady into WHY is it imperative that I get married.

"Because you need a life partner" was her clear concise answer.

Fair enough.

That is until I realized that she thinks my mom should bend to every single whim of my fathers. Before my Dadi moved in with us, it was the other way around. My father would hang on my mother's words, would do as she said, ate what she cooked, asked what she wanted to do. Now, due to elderly influences, it's my mother that asks how high when told to jump.

Does she want me to get married so I can please another person completely and have no say in my life? I hope not because I am not a flexible person. Literally.